The Throat Punch!

So we all know that rejection sucks. That’s nothing new or earth-shattering.

I’ve always kind of prided myself on my ability to take rejection in stride. After you get something so many times, it just becomes old hand.

No?  Ok. No problem.

But this rejection has come with a bit more poignancy.

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Still Shaking…Maybe a Little Smitten

Hey everyone! Finally finding a moment to get on here and update. Life has ben running along.  It feels like I’ve been working a lot, and I’ve definitely been training (Brazilian Jiu Jits) lots. Actually, my arms right this moment are super sore… like, way more sore than arms should be. :-/

Anywho…I had date #2 with Kay. Those of you who read My Hands Are Shaking will recall she was the old friend that I went on a first date with.  I’ve had a crush on her for years.

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My Hands Are Shaking

My mind has been in a spin the past few days. Let me start by saying thank you to everyone who is reading this.  You all rock. Those of you who chat with me through Facebook, or twitter, you all really kick a**. Many of you have been asking me how the date went. It genuinely feels nice that people care. I’m so neurotic about dating… it’s nice to have people to bounce my thoughts and ideas off of.

Dating is a strange phenomena. Also one that I am no good at.

It’s like a dance…one that I’m not really adept at. Much like any other dance , you gotta pick your spots.

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